Culturally we are programmed to value the “rugged independence” mentality. The view that if you work hard enough, you can accomplish anything on your own. And I certainly believe in the importance of hard work and the ability to influence your own future. However, it is naive, in my opinion, to suggest that you alone are going to accomplish anything. The “rugged independence” view paints a picture that it is only about you. The reality is, you are part of a much bigger ecosystem.
In every endeavor we pursue, there will be others involved. Only by working with, by supporting, these others, are we able to accomplish our goals. The real irony here is that when we offer our support, we often get back much more than we give. We often learn, grow, and enjoy life more fully. Perhaps there is some truth to that old adage that “It is better to give than receive”.
With that in mind:
Who are you going to support today?
As always, thanks for the time.
Good post. It seems a shame to so much of the Village mentality is so often lost in our urban and suburban hustle and bustle. Personally, I find it reassuring to live close enough to neighbors that I/we can look after each others’ homes when the occupants are away, help each other with lawns, heavy packages, look out for the safety of neighborhood kids, etc. But we need to be willing to help propagate that kind of outreach. Initiative counts.
At a recent small, local gathering/barbecue, a toast was given “To friends who are neighbors, and neighbors who are friends.”